SexA survey conducted by Durex (the condom maker) in 2013 looked at some of the ways sex can promote connection and satisfaction in couples. Some results included: Sex of respondents said being emotionally connected results in the best sex 92% are turned on by their partner showing vulnerability 90% believe it is possible for sex to get better after years of being together Sex 61% of women and 80% of men say "the sex is pretty good." (Another 2013 survey, from iVillage, got the same result.)