Divorce is almost never a desired effect of marriage. We don't go into marrying someone thinking that it'll end, the relationship will dissolve, and we'll move on as if we've never been through the series of hardships we've gone through. However, divorce is a reality for many, and it can certainly be the most difficult situation a person can go through. 

Divorce doesn’t always have to be a reality when you’re going through rough spots or have issues that seem to be difficult to overcome. While it can be a cure-all for any issue and a way to move on, there are several reasons to work on your marriage as opposed to throwing it away. Let’s look at some of those issues that might be unfixable and could lead to divorce.

Ongoing Fights

Does anyone like to fight? It might seem like your spouse enjoys going rounds with you, they might not. They could be trying to get their point across and are tired of not being heard. There is a difference between being heard and being understood. You can listen to someone without really understanding what they are saying.

Ongoing fights are typically a huge problem for couples, and it usually is the same problem that keeps coming up. If you’re tired of having what seems to be the same argument, it could feel like divorce is the only way to get out of the situation. But, why are you fighting? Is this an issue that can actually be resolved? Is this something that could be compromised on, or is it something silly? A person putting clothes in the basket is far different than having a disagreement about one person wanting kids and another not. 

Unresolved Trust Issues

Trust issues are deal-breakers. If you’ve done nothing wrong, being held to past hurt can feel like a vicious cycle. You don’t do the thing you’re being accused of, and at one point, you might say if you’re being accused, why not do it. Trust issues can include cheating, money issues, gambling, lying, and a slew of other issues.

Communication Breakdowns